1. She doesn’t believe in boundaries
Sometimes people need to be told that there are certain things that are not OK. For example, at some point, you may be confronted with a situation where your mother-in-law comes unannounced with a casserole with food just because “she knows that you don’t usually cook”. You and your partner may want to discuss some vacation plans or plan a trip somewhere over the weekend.
She is omnipresent and she wants to know every single detail. This actually needs to stop. Why? Simply because this is a warning sign that a person does not know about boundaries. She might have an important place in your lives, but she doesn’t need to be in front of and in between the two of you all the time.
Take a seat and discuss everything that bothers you. This way, your problems can get resolved.
This is so true. I have experienced some of these issues with my mother in law