They make plans without you
When you are perceived as rude and arrogant, people will not exactly bend over backwards to spend time with you, warns Christine Scott-Hudson, MFT, licensed psychotherapist and owner of Create Your Life Studio. After all, nobody wants a Debbie Downer to rain on their parade.
If you notice that people in your group like socializing with everyone else but you, be it at “events, outings, lunch, or the movies,” the reason everyone skips on you and you are never invited anywhere might be that people are turned off by your annoying attitude.
